Technical Bisexual and her Butch

At 15, I realized that I was bisexual and there was not a thing I could do about it. I lived on a farm in a small town, and suffice to say there wasn't much info out there about sexuality. As I wanted to get out on my own ASAP, I jetted through high school and ended up in university where I could finally figure out what the heck I wanted. I found my first girlfriend, but she was just experimenting. It was not until much later that I truly fell in love. After abusive relationships with both genders, I came across a woman who had been through as much as I had, yet was the opposite of me in many ways.
She was totally hot, butch, and could fix my car. I cooked for her, and I gained a lifelong companion. But we were hassled about our butch-femme relationship, and the fact we were monogamous. Some people are never happy. Ours is a constantly shifting dynamic, where sometimes she watches chick flicks (ew!) and I bury the dead vermin (long story.) My family wishes I had made different choices, but they are as supportive as is possible for them. I live my life for me.
Do I consider myself bisexual now? I hate saying whether that is true because of the backlash from both hetro and homo communities. But yes, I am a technical bisexual. Just because I am with a woman does not make me a lesbian. It makes me a happily married (legally) one. Be who you are - screw them. Life is too short to please everyone... and eat lots of chocolate cake!
Jen, Ontario